Have you ever wanted to achieve extraordinary results with women? What if I told you. You can!
I attended a Real Social Dynamics Hotseat by Executive Coach Jeff Allen. Here I share my experience.
Real Social Dynamics Hot Seat Jeff Allen
Success with women is something that can be learned? Indeed.
The company teaching this is Real Social Dynamics.
Real Social Dynamics is a worldwide dating and success with women company traveling all over the world teaching hundreds of thousands of men how to interact, communicate, date, and sleep with beautiful women.
Real Social Dynamics also offers free events called the Real Social Dynamics Free Tour.
Does this even seem real? Eight years ago I would of thought something like this was not even possible. I used to be terrified of women. If I was to walk up to a pretty girl I’d have the hardest time just saying “hello.”
Let alone letting her know that I found her attractive. I’d be shaking in my boots at the thought of that.
Today I am a completely different man. I am not the man I once was.
If you were to tell the old me that if I went out and interacted with women I’d get better at it. I would not of believed you.
I’d say “Listen my friend… that is really cool and all but that is just not me.”
I thought that there were guys who had it or didn’t have it.
I’m here to tell you that is completely false.
No man is cut from a different cloth.
For example if start playing basketball your not going to become Michael Jordan on the first day. If you shoot one ball your not going to instantly transform into Kobe Bryant.
You have to practice. Practice makes perfect. So in order to have a skill to communicate with women. We all must go out and practice. Practice makes perfect.
What the Hotseat shows is the Instructors from Real Social Dynamics showing in field video of them engaging, interacting, dating, seducing, and sleeping with beautiful women.
It shows the entire process from the beginning to the end of the interaction.
You can meet a girl. Have her as your girlfriend, a date, a friend with benefits, or anything you desire.
I went to the Hotseat and got to meet Jeff Allen.
Once inside I received a free Pandur shirt and Free Audio book of Jeff Allen’s Book Get Laid or Die Trying.
Immediately Jeff stood out as an amazing speaker. He is very charismatic, grounded in his energy, and present to the moment as he unloads vast amounts of pickup knowledge.
He breaks down the interactions on video, shows when he messing up, and he helps you understand that girls just want a cool, fun, interesting, and charismatic man to be with.
He shows that you can go up and give good present energy that results in some magical moments between the girl and you.
We have all been through that time where we go up to a girl and get blown out instantly. Obviously not every girl is going to just lay back and desire you. Some girls will be rude, mean, or obnoxious.
Jeff’s mind set is that any girl within a certain amount of time is going to eventually like him. Just based on his personality and the fact he loves himself. If he goes up and talks to a beautiful girl long enough. She will make the judgment call that he is pretty cool and wants to learn more about him.
Of course not all the girls give him enough time but this powerful frame allows him to approach with zero consequence.
Jeff emphasizes the cardinal rule of pickup as “Women feel what we feel.” At the same time we must be present to what emotions he is giving off as well. This is real authentic human communication.
Jeff breaks down all the steps. So a guy who is not a “natural” at this or a guy who isn’t viewed by society as the guy who is allowed to approach beautiful girls is cut to ribbons.
He shows you the myth that you have been fed is not reality. He unloads mountains of knowledge and then backs it up with videos as proof.
Jeff isn’t the standard of good looking either. Here is a picture:
He is average in every sense of the word. Just a normal looking dude. This is the guy who is stepping to some of the hottest women in the world.
So do I recommend the Hotseat?
Drum roll please…
I highly recommend it. As of right now it is only $300.
In terms of the big 3 parts of self development there is health, wealth, and relationships. People are so concentrated on health and wealth while completely forgetting to have a dating and social life.
Being able to CHOOSE who I want to date is amazing! I am able to pick who I want to date. I am not restricted by my social circle or workplace. I have the ability to go out and meet beautiful girls. It is super cool.
So do as I am doing now and take care of the “relationships” part of your life.
The Hotseat will help you.
Will women get anything from this program?
If you are a bisexual women this program goes very deep into the dynamics of pulling threesomes. In Jeff’s videos he goes out with his girlfriend and they pull them out of the venue together and sleep with them. They have this amazing dichotomy that works together (male and female) to make this work.
So if your a bisexual girl with a guy, a bisexual single women, or a gay women who wants to attract women into your life you can get something from the Hotseat as well.
At each event there is always at least one girl and usually ten or more. There is always girls who want to understand the behind the scenes stuff. The physical layer of a social interaction beyond the surface layer of the conversation itself. There is a full illustration in how this all comes together and why people are attracted to certain people.
The Hotseat helps anyone wishing to embody those characteristics until they become a natural, congruent, and charismatic person from the inside.
Take the steps like myself and realize you are enough. We can do this. This is completely natural and normal. Sex is no big deal. Dating is no big deal. Girls want to meet a cool and amazing guy.
Good Fortune to You My Friend,
What the Fuck! So after reading through some scandalous stories I consistently see guys fucking up sex not only for themselves but for women. In this I break down Three Critical Things Every Guy Should Do Before Sex.
Three Critical Things Every Guy Should Know Before Sex
Lets start by stating that in order for Sex between two people to happen there is two things required:
That is all that is needed. Hell Isolation isn’t even needed if a women is dripping all over the floor to your snakelike charm. Sssss ;-).
There is also one very important piece that is consistently overlooked by many guys.
TRUST: Without some form of trust the women will not put herself in a position to be isolated with you. Sure she may be dripping wet but if you have spent any amount of time pulling you will constantly hear girls saying “Your not a serial killer are you? How do I know your not going to kill me?” Things of this nature are tests for congruence. The easiest way to avoid these type of questions is be unfiltered to the MAX.
Do not filter yourself at all. An easy way to stop these questions from even popping up is saying it before the girl can. (Example: Your not a serial killer are you? I know your small but you look like you can pack a punch… etc.)
The girl wants a hot guy to ravish her like a grizzly bear but does not want to be eaten alive in the process.
Sooo… the girl trusts you enough to be in isolation and horny enough to be fucked by your 10 foot cock… or average… or asian… whatever. (Quick side note: Penis size does not matter. I’m no Achilles but I have yet to meet the girl who didn’t fuck me after my dicks out.)
Now HERE are Three Critical Things Every Guy Should Do Before Sex:
- Safe Word.
- No Ego.
- Motion Creates Orgasms.
The first one safe word I do before even getting very physical with a girl in isolation is give her a means of control. No you are not handing away your POWER as a man but I am giving the girl a means to stop whatever is happening at ANY POINT.
For example I’ll say: “Hey I’m a little rough around the edges… what is your favorite fruit/movie/vegetable/pokemon? (She replies: banana.) If at any point… any point your uncomfortable just say banana and I’ll stop no questions asked.”
This builds massive rapport, comfort, and trust. It also allows girls to be kinky as fuck with me because if at any point they are uncomfortable they just say their safe word.
Some girls will test you. As they should. Perhaps mid-sex will say the word. At that point STOP. Most of the time they will just giggle knowing that you are an awesome man who will fuck them right while subsequently allowing them to open up to be ravished.
Keep in mind this word is to be used seriously. If the girl takes it upon herself to say it all the time just to get you to stop for a laugh be stern. Kick her out if she abuses the word. I have had times where girls would just say it to get a giggle… not because they genuinely wanted me to stop. I told them sternly that this word is to be taken seriously and not to do that again. I have yet to meet a girl I’ve had to kick to the curb.
This isn’t so much a technique. It is TRUST. An additional benefit for those who have been with BDSM, girls that have been sexually molested, or girls who simply get off on the idea of being taken. Will find this safe word to be amazing.
Not all the time but about 1 in 4 girls I meet get off saying no, stop, or calling me some sick name. This allows them to continue to do that while knowing that the safe word is there. No girls gets off screaming banana but I’ve been surprised before.
The next one is no ego I begin right as we start getting physical. I’ll say “If there is anything you need from me… anything. Touch you here, tickle you there, lick here, fondle there, bite here, or don’t stop. TELL ME.”
When it comes to sex so many guys are thinking about how to please themselves rather then their partner. Guys, guys, guys, we are all going to get our orgasm. That is virtually guaranteed. The women on the other hand is not always a guarantee.
Have her your center piece and ravish her in any way she needs. Do not go in like a blockhead thinking “Oh I already know how to have sex.”
Every girl is different and every moment during sex is different. For example at the beginning of sex a lot of women’s nipples are going to be sensitive and delicate to the touch. By the end of sex her nipples could be sucked, bit, and pulled on and she is begging you to do it.
A women may want to be treated like a flower when you guys start and by the end be treated like a cum dumpster. BE FLEXIBLE.
The girl will more often then not give you the blueprint to how to make her cum and the easiest way to do that is to DROP THE EGO and allow her to communicate what she needs.
The last thing motion creates orgasms. Well that sounds simple you think.
What I’ve noticed is that girls who not moving, girls who are laying their right in that sweet spot as you pump them are feeling you perfectly.
Are you confused? I was for a long time. Let me explain…
So a I began having sex with her I noticed her moving her body to position herself so that I would touch her g-spot. I would then move with her and once again she would be out of allignment.
So you see… if a girl moves to reposition herself so that my pumping away hits her in the right spot. DO NOT MOVE WITH HER.
I repeat… DO NOT MOVE WITH HER.
Simply keep fucking, keep pumping, keep banging, keep smashing… in the same motion over and over and over.
Keep going until you can not anymore. Still confused?
Alright lets say a girl wants you to rub a certain point on her back. You are rubbing her back at a certain point but it is the wrong spot.
So she re-positions herself so that you can rub the right spot… except… as she re-positions herself, you re-position yourself.
So she never has the right spot rubbed. Get it?
When a girl is not moving and her hips are lined up perfectly so your cock is hitting her g-spot at just the right spot. Keep hitting it. DO NOT re-position yourself.
That is the three. What I’ve noticed and what I hope you notice is that girls are actually calling you back after sex. Some are begging to come over at all hours of the night just to get a taste.
Do you know how hard it is for a girl to find a dominant, cool, trusting, communicating, and apt man? Hard as fuck. So many guys are clueless. Then they have no idea why girls aren’t calling them back.
Build trust, cheer kinkiness, communicate effectively, and fuck smartly.
Three Critical Things Every Guy Should Know Before Sex.
Good Fortune to You my Friend,